Wheeler is to wed fiancee Holby City star Tina Hobley in December, but denied the planned musical line-up included his pal.
'I would not ask him to play at my wedding. We spend a lot of time in each other's company so I understand why people might think he would be [playing],' Wheeler says. 'I want my wedding to remain a private event in the countryside.'
Diary's postal address for that invite is at the foot of page 19 if you have a change of heart, Oli.